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Things to normalise for the fourth trimester

Stephanie Valle

Postpartum isn’t what most new mums expect.


If we can encourage our sisters to take time in the early postpartum period to rest & recuperate, they will come out the other side of the fourth trimester ready (I mean, are we ever really ready?!) to tackle the next set of challenges as their baby grows & (both) their bodies continue change.


WHY?

-Rest is important for the body to use its energy to focus on healing the body after labour & birth (yes, even if they had a caesarean),

-it's important to allow mum to feel safe/supported so the hormone oxytocin can still work its magic for bonding with baby, and

-rest is whatever the mum perceives as rest (ideally doing something where she can't hear baby crying if baby is in the loving arms of another). Rest could be reading a book with headphones in, it could be sitting in the car going for a short drive… talking to a friend. Of course sleep is rest too, where we know the body does an excellent job (thank you Lord) at reconfiguring & healing.


So, I say for the first forty days atleast, lets normalise:

💛5-5-5 RULE - 5 DAYS IN BED, 5 DAYS ON, 5 NEAR

💛STAYING HOME IN YOUR BUBBLE

💛SAYING NO TO VISITORS (IF YOU WISH)

💛SLEEPING AT ANY AND ALL TIMES OF DAY

💛CUDDLING & RESPONDING TO YOUR BABY AS MUCH AS YOU WANT

💛CRYING... A LOT!

💛NOT GETTING OUT OF PYJAMAS

💛NOT BEING SUPER ACTIVE ON SOCIAL MEDIA OR TEXT


What else would you add?

 
 
 

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